Foreigners can't own land in Thailand outright, which turns every property decision in these stories into an act of trust: land bought in a partner's name, a house built for her family, a guesthouse business that may or may not survive the relationship. This page gathers the stories where a real property or land purchase is part of what happens, for better or worse.
Simon, a 45-year-old Australian, assumes that if there's a prenuptial agreement, it'll be his idea, to protect himself. His future father-in-law explains he actually wants the agreement to protect family land that's stayed in his daughter's name for generations.
A British engineer married Knock, a woman from a respectable Bangkok family, and for eleven years she was the perfect wife. Once they moved to the UK on a spouse visa that cost two years and a fortune, everything changed: total control of the money, a women's shelter, a custody battle, and an ending he never saw coming.
A 42-year-old Dutchman started visiting Pattaya in 2010 and never stopped coming back every January. In 2022, in a bar on Soi Honey, he met Jib, from Isaan. Two years later he bought land from her family, fully aware of what that meant.
A 50-year-old Australian recounts how a 350-guest Thai wedding in Phuket turned into a guest house in Patong, an affair with another woman, bar fights involving the police, and a final message asking for a divorce.
A Mancunian recounts how five years with a Thai woman who claimed to own a hotel in Chiang Mai ended with over £30,000 lost on land, a house and a pickup truck, and a suitcase packed within seconds the night he said no.
A 54-year-old Austrian had been travelling alone to Thailand for years when he met Aom, a pregnant woman, with no expectations between them. Months later she asked him for 60,000 baht for her mother's hospital bill. Instead of sending the money, he flew to Kanchanaburi to check it out in person.
Graham, a 51-year-old Scot, first came to Thailand at 32, on holiday after a long breakup. In the bars of Koh Samui he met Dao, the woman he'd later marry. Nineteen years, a Thai wedding, and a house built in Isaan later, he lives surrounded by her family and wouldn't change a thing.
A Canadian sailor has been married nine years to a woman from Pattaya and has three kids. Now he faces the hardest question of his life: stay or leave.