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12,500 baht for two bottles of wine. As I got out of the taxi, I watched the manager get in with her.
An Austrian met a woman from Thai Friendly in Bangkok: an expensive dinner, a shady venue, another bottle of wine, and a 12,500 baht bill topped off with a guilt trip about losing face. The final scene outside his hotel made everything clear.
He almost sent 400,000 baht. The only good decision he made was not to.
A 41-year-old British man went in two weeks from a Soi 4 fling to talking dowry and house renovations. He almost sent 400,000 baht. He did not.
For a few hours I felt like the most interesting man in the room. It took me a while to understand why.
For a few hours, a 62-year-old American felt like the most interesting man in the room. It took him a while to see what was really behind it.
A trip to Vietnam taught me to tell lust from love. I went back to Thailand, met a woman 24 years younger than me, and I'm about to propose.
A 52-year-old Canadian, after mistaking lust for love on a trip to Vietnam, goes back to Tinder looking for something real and meets a Thai woman of Chinese descent 24 years younger than him. Three weeks together across Bangkok, Pattaya and Koh Samui become the start of a long-distance relationship that, bumps and all, is still going strong toward a proposal.
I checked her passport, her certificates, years of photos. It all lined up. It cost me $30,000 to learn that wasn't enough.
At 57, living in the quiet peace of a marriage that survived my wife's third affair, I met Pre at a bar in Nana Plaza, Bangkok. She was 37, looked 25, and had a perfectly verifiable story: passport, divorce papers, years of social media photos. Over six months I sent her 30,000 dollars for her family, her studies, and a Denmark visa that never came through.
I came to Korat for eighteen months for a rail project. Six years later the project still isn't finished, and I've stopped wanting it to be.
Erik, a 44-year-old Dutch civil engineer, arrives in Nakhon Ratchasima for an eighteen-month contract on the high-speed rail project. He meets Mint, the project's liaison engineer and translator, and eighteen months turns into six years.
I went to the White Temple on holiday, just to take photos. I flew home two weeks later to actually pack my bags.
Alex, a 45-year-old British illustrator, visits Chiang Rai's White Temple on holiday. Bua, a guide and assistant at the associated gallery, notices his sketches. Five years later, Alex exhibits his own work in the city.
She raised her palm flat and said "don't speak." Then walked back to the other man without looking back.
A German from Frankfurt recounts how, on his fourth trip to Pattaya, he spent 27 days with Siri, a 28-year-old bar worker, until he saw her holding hands with another man and she gestured for him not to speak. A final goodbye message changed little.
A widower for ten years, I promised a stranger I'd come back. That's how I met Newt.
A 64-year-old New Zealander widower recounts his last three nights in Koh Samui with Newt, a woman he met by chance after keeping a promise made to another girl on the street. No drama, no requests, just company at exactly the right moment.
My father was stationed at Udorn airbase in 1969. I went to Udon Thani looking for a family I didn't even know existed.
Robert, a 58-year-old American, travels to Udon Thani after his father's death, an air force mechanic once stationed at the old Udorn base during the Vietnam War, looking for traces of a life his father never talked about. Nid, a local researcher, helps him trace temple records, and something more grows along the way.
I went to Thailand on holiday after an eleven-year breakup in Scotland. Nineteen years later, I live with twelve in-laws under one roof.
Graham, a 51-year-old Scot, first came to Thailand at 32, on holiday after a long breakup. In the bars of Koh Samui he met Dao, the woman he'd later marry. Nineteen years, a Thai wedding, and a house built in Isaan later, he lives surrounded by her family and wouldn't change a thing.
The lockdown wiped out the businesses she'd spent twenty years building. She never once stopped calling me every morning and every night.
On a group tour of Thailand in 2019, an Irishman met a divorced woman running several small businesses on Koh Samui. Lockdown forced her to move back to Isaan, but they never stopped talking every single day. Years later, he's planning to propose on his next visit.